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Halloween

Halloween—You are not forgotten, Timothy

A Piece Missing

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Happy Halloween

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Halloween HouseHalloween is one of those days that is both fun and dangerous at the same time. People of all ages get to dress up as just about anything they want. It’s the fact that faces are hidden that can be dangerous because there are bad people out at all times of the year. Halloween, though, allows them to better hide who they are so they can do bad things, either to animals (keep your black cat safe tonight), people, or property.

On Halloween 1974, I was a sophomore at Texas A&M University, about 100 miles northwest of Houston. On that Halloween night, the fun of Halloween died for many Houstonians, Texans, and Americans. In years to come, children no longer had free reign to dress up in costumes and traipse through their neighborhoods gathering as much candy as they could.

Halloween pumpkinsOctober 31, 1974, brought out the most despicable type of person in Ronald Clark O’Bryan, an optician from Deer Park, a Houston suburb. O’Bryan had taken his two children, Timothy and Elizabeth, to a friend’s house for trick-or-treating. O’Bryan slipped several Pixy Stix candies laced with potassium cyanide into the bags of his two children, as well as several other children.

O’Bryan had clipped off one end of the giant plastic Pixy Stix candy straws, sprinkled the cyanide into them, and stapled them shut. Just before bedtime, still at the friend’s house in Pasadena, O’Bryan offered young Timothy one last piece of candy, the tainted one. Within a few hours, his son was dead.

HalloweenBy the time of his trial, O’Bryan was known as The Candyman. He was tried and convicted of murdering his child for insurance money, having taken out life insurance policies for $10,000 on each child in January 1974, and then additional policies of $20,000 on each child a few weeks before Halloween. O’Bryan was executed by lethal injection in 1984.

The only good thing to this tragic story is that parents are more aware of their children’s safety, not only on Halloween but throughout the year. Treasures gathered on Halloween are usually carefully examined before children, or anyone else, are allowed to enjoy them.

HalloweenCandy tampering apparently peaked in the late 1980s and early 1990s. Usually such tampering involved putting sharp objects (razor blades, pins, needles) in candy and fruit, often candied apples. According to some poisoned candy researchers (what a profession!!), some sharp objects were accidentally inserted into the candy or fruit. Huh? I’m not buying it. How do you accidentally put a sharp object in candy or fruit? Nope. Not buying it.

Candy tampering appears to have died down somewhat in recent years, but it only takes one incident to cause harm. Don’t let that one incident be your child. Accompany your children on their trick-or-treating and note which candy came from which house.

Added with edit: A news story just breaking is about a child who found a rusty razor blade in a package of M&M’s. Police initially say it’s probably a quality control issue because the package appears not to have been tampered with. Doesn’t matter whether or not it’s quality control. It happens! This one probably from a disgruntled or deranged Mars employee! Here’s the report: Razor in Halloween candy.

In remembrance of Timothy. You are not forgotten.

Halloween

Keep your black cat safe!

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Mylar—Not in this century or the next

My wise old grandmother

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My wise old grandmother was a nature lover before tree huggers hit the scene. She was also a conservationist before it was fashionable to be a conservationist. I remember her constant nagging about being kind to wildlife, enjoying the outdoors, conserving our natural resources….. On and on and on.

I didn’t pay much attention when I was living under her roof, but when I set out on my own, it was amazing just how much her teachings influenced what I did and even with whom I hung.

That’s why I’m a big fan of places like the San Diego Zoo and SeaWorld. Have they made mistakes in the past? Sure. We all have. But without Zoos and Aquariums, 99% of the people would never get to see, and appreciate, a giraffe, an elephant, a whale, a dolphin, a tiger or lion…. There would also be many species that now would be extinct without the breeding services that zoos and aquariums offer. The California Condor comes immediately to mind, as does the Northern White Rhinoceros.

Whenever I’m out and about, I always try to visit Zoos and Aquariums to show my support, and I have an annual pass to the San Diego Zoo and SeaWorld San Diego. Along with their breeding and release programs, zoos and aquariums provide rescue services. The number of seals and sea lions rescued each year by SeaWorld is amazing. One could argue that if the mom is going to abandon her pup, there must be a good reason. Maybe there is, but I’ll go with SeaWorld on that one—rescue, rehabilitate, and release.

Without the programs of the Zoo and SeaWorld, I never would have had the privilege of seeing a Bald Eagle, a Golden Eagle, a Milky Eagle Owl, or an Orca Whale.

Bald eagle at San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Golden eagle Ambassador at the San Diego Zoo's Safari Park

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Milky Eagle Owl

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Dining with Shamu at SeaWorld

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In all my travels, I have never seen those four species outside of a Zoo or Aquarium. Of course, I know they exist in the wild, and I had an appreciation for them without seeing them because of how my wise old grandmother raised me. I don’t have to see something to know it, to understand it, to understand why it’s disappearing. Many people do, though. Every time I go to the Zoo or SeaWorld, I hear at least one person, often many many more, say in awe, “I had no idea they were so beautiful” or “I had no idea they were endangered because of us.” Those people, I hope, go home with a greater understanding of this world we live on and how we need to share it with the plants and animals around us.

As an example, recently I was up in Orange County traipsing around when I found the Pacific Marine Mammal Center.

Pacific Marine Mammal Center

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20612 Laguna Canyon Road
Laguna Beach, California

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The Pacific Marine Mammal Center is responsible for animals (mostly pinnipeds) stranded on beaches along the Orange County coast, extending north to Seal Beach and south to San Onofre. The majority of the pinnipeds rescued are severely malnourished, suffer from dehydration, and may have respiratory infections. They also treat animals that are affected by drift net entanglement, fishing lines and hooks, human inflicted injuries, shark bites, parasites, and various diseases.

The most common pinnipeds to Southern California are Northern Elephant Seals, Pacific Harbor Seals, and California Sea Lions. Occasionally, they treat Northern Fur Seals, and they are the only temporary holding facility for small whales and dolphins between Santa Barbara and San Diego.

California sea lion

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California sea lion

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Invariably when I visit the Zoo, SeaWorld, or, in this case, the Pacific Marine Mammal Center, I learn something new. For example, here is what I learned during my short visit to the Pacific Marine Mammal Center:

Mylar Bouquet Wall of Shame

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Mylar Bouquet Wall of Shame

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I have always loved Mylar balloons, but no more.

They are off my LIKE  list and onto my NOT-IN-THIS-CENTURY-OR-THE-NEXT list.

I hope you will join me in my quest to celebrate special occasions with something other than Mylar balloons. A good meal, flowers, and toys come to mind. Maybe even just some quality time spent with those you love and are celebrating with.

Sunflower and clouds

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Ferris Wheel at Irvine Spectrum Center

Irvine Spectrum Center—It’s fabulous!

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Sometimes I have problems convincing newfound friends that I am, indeed, gay. It might have something to do with me liking fast cars, motorcycles, and sports instead of your stereotypical musicals, theatre, hairdressing, flowers, interior design……… 🙂

One area where the gay stereotype does not fail me is in my love for shopping. Even if there is no money left in my monthly budget, window shopping for next month’s budget is just fine……..er, dandy…….er, fabulous!

Between San Diego and Los Angeles there are several great shopping malls. One of my favorite is the Irvine Spectrum Center. Coincidentally, it is located in Irvine, California.

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It is an outdoor mall, a style with which I was unfamiliar until I came to San Diego, and has your standard mall fare—Barnes & Noble, Macy’s, Nordstrom, Cheesecake Factory, P.F. Chang’s China Bistro, California Pizza Kitchen, Johnny Rockets, Red Robin, Ruby’s, and The Improv. The outside screenshots of the fictional Mall of Miami from “Austin and Ally” takes place at the Irvine Spectrum Center. If you get tired of shopping (?!), you can always relax on the merry-go-round or the Ferris wheel, permanent entertainment in the middle of the mall.

Merry-go-round at Irvine Spectrum Center

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Ferris Wheel at Irvine Spectrum Center

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Ferris wheels lend themselves naturally to having fun with them in Photoshop, and just for your viewing pleasure, I have had my fun and will share it with you here. Each picture was created with just one or two mouse clicks using default presets; nothing complicated but a lot of fun.

Ferris Wheel at Irvine Spectrum Center

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Ferris Wheel at Irvine Spectrum Center

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Ferris Wheel at Irvine Spectrum Center

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Ferris Wheel at Irvine Spectrum Center

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Female lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

Happy National Cat Day!

Cats

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Happy National Cat Day!

Female lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Female lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Female lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Male lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Female lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Male lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Male lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Male lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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African lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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African lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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African lion paw at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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African lion paw at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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African lions at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Male lion at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park

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Queen Anne Cottage (You’ll know it when you see it)

Out & About

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When I was but a boy, I wanted to be a history teacher. Then I learned how to spell anesthesiologist and wanted to be an anesthesiologist. Then I found out that becoming an anesthesiologist would require college, medical school, and an internship. By the time I was 30, I might be an anesthesiologist. For a boy of 11, 30 was way too old. I was back to wanting to be a history teacher. Never made it, but I still love history.

So when I went to the Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens, I fell in love with the Queen Anne Cottage. Many people will know it when they see it because of its use in many television shows and the movies.

Queen Anne Cottage

Queen Anne Cottage

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Queen Anne Cottage

Queen Anne Cottage

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The Queen Anne Cottage and Coach Barn is a California Historical Landmark and is also on the National Register of Historic Places for its significance as an example of Queen Anne Style architecture.

It was built in 1885-1886 for Elias Jackson “Lucky” Baldwin and his fourth wife, Lillie Bennett, daughter of Albert Bennett, the Cottage’s architect. When Baldwin died in 1909, his daughter Anita closed the Cottage and disposed of its furnishings. Many architectural elements, such as stained glass windows, black walnut doors, and marble fireplace mantels were stored in the coach barn.

Coach Barn at Queen Anne Cottage at the Los Angeles County Arboretum

Coach Barn

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The cottage and coach barn were restored from 1951 to 1953. Isn’t that a beautiful barn?

The Cottage has been used for many television shows and films. Arguably the most famous use was for the opening of “Fantasy Island” where Tattoo can be seen ringing the bell in the cottage’s tower and Mr. Roarke is seen exiting from the cottage. The cottage is also prominent in “Murder, She Wrote” and “Roots: The Next Generation.”

Outside of the Queen Anne Cottage, the Arboretum has played host to several “Tarzan” movies, two “Jurassic Park” movies, “Objective, Burma!”, and “The New Original Wonder Woman, ” and I’m only listing the movies I know!

Music videos have also been filmed here, including Katy Perry’s music video for “Roar.”

Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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The arboretum is reported to be haunted, particularly the Queen Anne Cottage. Sightings have been reported of Lucky Baldwin’s ghost, one of his wives’ ghost,  and strange anomalies walking the gardens at night.

Following is a selection of pictures from the Arboretum & Botanical Garden. For more pictures, see my previous posts:

Gone to the birds
Friday Flower Fiesta (6-14-12)
They’re everywhere!
I’m an abject failure
Friday Flower Fiesta (6-28-12)

Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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The Queen Anne Cottage dog houseLos Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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Location of Los Angeles County Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

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Denny Laine

Music on Mondays — Happy birthday to Denny Laine!

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Tomorrow is the 68th birthday for Denny Laine. Happy birthday, Denny!

Denny LaineLaine is a guitarist and singer, and was a founding member of The Moody Blues. I didn’t become familiar with him until 1971 when he showed up as a member of Wings on their first album, Wild Life, released December 7, 1971. For those who don’t know or don’t remember, Wings was Paul McCartney’s band after The Beatles broke up in 1970. He was one of the three core members of Wings throughout its history, the other two being Paul McCartney and his wife, Linda.

Wings (and Paul McCartney) rocked throughout the 1970s with albums such as “Red Rose Speedway,” “Band on the Run,” “Venus and Mars,” “Wings at the Speed of Sound,” “London Town,” and “Back to the Egg.” Hit singles that made it to #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart include “My Love,” “Band on the Run,” “Listen To What The Man Said,” “Silly Love Songs,” “With A Little Luck,” and “Coming Up.” A couple of near misses include “Live and Let Die,” peaking at #2; “Junior’s Farm,” peaking at #3; and “Let ‘Em In,” also peaking at #3.

The Summit in Houston, Texas, ca. 1994I saw Wings in concert at The Summit in Houston, Texas, on Tuesday, May 4, 1976, as part of their “Wings Over America” tour. Texas A&M was in Dead Week, so I could get away with going to a concert 90 miles away on a week day.

I knew the words to all the songs and happily sang along with the rest of the crowd…. Well, almost all of the songs. There was one song that I was not familiar with. It was played as one of the encores and was titled “Go Now.” I thought it was a new, unreleased song, but after reading the reviews the next day in the Houston Chronicle and the Houston Post, I found out that “Go Now” was The Moody Blues’ first hit from February 1965. The reviews also increased my musical knowledge base by informing me that Denny Laine was a founding member of The Moody Blues. Laine quit The Moody Blues in August 1966 although I could not find out why.

Wings Over AmericaI became familiar with The Moody Blues, as did most of the world, in August 1972 when “Nights in White Satin” hit #2 on the Billboard Hot 100 singles chart. Interestingly, the album “Nights in White Satin” was released in 1968, and a single, “Tuesday Afternoon,” made it to #24 on the charts. If I remember correctly, the four years between the release of an album and a single making it to the Top 10 is the longest ever.

I liked “Go Now” but could not find it in any of the record stores, not even in any of the cut-out bins (smile if you remember cut-out bins). There was no such thing as iTunes, Napster, or amazon.com at the time, so I had to do without that song until December 1976—seven months later!—when it was released on the “Wings Over America” live album.

For Denny Laine’s 68th birthday, I give you some Denny Laine.

“Go Now” by The Moody Blues
Denny Laine on guitar and lead vocals

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“Mull of Kintyre” from November 1977 is the first single in Great Britain to sell over two million copies,
and that includes all of The Beatles’ hits. It still is the #1 selling non-charity single in Great Britain. Written by Paul McCartney and Denny Laine, it has Laine on backing vocals, acoustic guitar, and electric guitar. Denny Laine shows up in the video at the 1:30 mark.

 

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Denny Laine’s greatest collaboration with McCartney came on 1978’s “London Town” album where he had co-songwriting credits on five of the fourteen songs. He sang lead vocal on two of them, both of them about children: “Children Children” and “Deliver Your Children.” Here’s “Children Children”:

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Happy birthday, Denny!

Happy birthday to Denny Laine

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Help us do our job

Picture of the Moment

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Please, sit, and help us do our job.

Please, sit, and help us do our job

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Picture taken at Laguna Coast Wilderness Park, 18751 Laguna Canyon Road, Laguna Beach, California.

Laguna Coast Wilderness Park

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Create change

Out & About

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Earlier this year when I went to Laguna Beach for the Festival of Arts (see my posts, Festival of Arts and Laguna Beach), I noticed that the city was remarkably clean and not a homeless person in sight.

I’m still cataloging the hundreds of pictures I took that day, and I just discovered why there did not appear to be any homeless people in Laguna Beach:

Laguna Beach parking meter

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Yes, that’s a parking meter, a pretty parking meter, but it’s more than just a parking meter. See the little “CREATE CHANGE” plaque at the bottom? That tells you exactly where your money is going:

Create Change

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What a novel idea! Here in San Diego, I believe parking meter money goes into the general fund, and we all know what happens to general fund money!

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Laguna Beach location

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Tree roots

Tree roots

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Recently I found this tree root which had burst out of the sandstone cliff and made its way about six feet to the ground.

Sadly, the tree is no longer around, and the root has been chopped off at the sidewalk.

For some reason the root had been left there, and I thought it provided an interesting contrast to the sandstone cliff.

Tree root

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That reminded me of some of my other pictures of fantastic tree roots which many of you have not seen:

Tree roots

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Tree roots

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Tree roots

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Tree roots

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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I have done a couple of blog posts this past week about Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery:

God Bless Our Pets
There by the graveside will the noble dog be found

Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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IMG_0123I hope you’ll indulge me by letting me do one more.

I found Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery completely by accident. I had intentionally gotten lost to try to find something new. I was successful because, outside of Stephen King’s book Pet Sematary, I never knew that pet cemeteries actually existed. By the time I found Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery, it was time to get to where I was going, so I did not get a chance to stop. The next day, though, I retraced my steps, about 33 miles round trip, specifically to visit Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery. What I found brought a tear to my eye; to think that my pets were simply buried in the yard with no grave marker at all. I felt so bad.

Following are some pictures from Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery (SVPC), but before I get to them, let me share something that I found in SVPC’s literature rack.

A Dog’s Last Will & Testament

Before humans die, they write their last will and testament, give their home and all they have to those they leave behind. If, with my paws, I could do the same, this is what I’d ask:

To a poor and lonely stray, I’d give my happy home; my bowl and cozy bed, soft pillow, and all my toys; the lap, which I loved so much; the hand that stroked my fur; and the sweet voice that spoke my name.

I’d will to the sad, scared shelter dog the place I had in my human’s loving heart, of which there seemed to be no bounds.

So when I die, please do not say, “I will never have a pet again, for the loss and pain is more than I can stand.”

Instead, go and find an unloved dog, one whose life has held no joy or hope, and give my place to him.

This is the only thing I can give you:

The love I left behind.

—Author unknown

Now simply replace “dog” with “cat,” or “bird,” or “lizard,” or any other pet that gave you unconditional love, for our love in return is not limited to dogs only.

Second Chance Dog Rescue

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SVPC offers almost two acres of peaceful quiet for our beloved pets, including a chapel, a columbarium, and a mausoleum. Inside is a display of caskets, urns, and headstones; a literature rack; and a note board with many thank you notes from appreciative pet owners.

Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Chapel at Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Pet urns at Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery

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I walked through the grounds and read every headstone. Here is a slide show of some of my favorites:

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Did you see “Pumpkin” in the slide show? Pumpkin died in 2010, and I included the headstone simply because it’s Halloween……….. I suspect Pumpkin was an orange cat.

Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery was founded in 1955 (same year I was born!). One of the reasons why I walked throughout the grounds is because I was looking for the oldest headstone. It’s something I like to do whenever I visit a cemetery. The oldest headstone I found was for Sophie, who died in 1956.

Sophie

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The picture seems to be of a black cat, but I couldn’t be sure. My first cat, a black stray which adopted me in 2006 and was hit and killed by a car in 2007, was named Sophie.

Sophie the Black Cat

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Sophie the Black Cat

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Sophie the Black Cat

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Sophie on fence

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Sophie the Black Cat

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There are bad people in the world who like to do harm to black cats at this time of year, so if you have a black cat, keep it safe inside over the next seven days.

Keep your black cat safe!

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You're not bad luck!

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Thank you to Natalie and Gerry at Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery for talking with me and allowing me to walk around the grounds and take pictures. If you need a quiet, peaceful eternal resting place for your pet, go see Natalie or Gerry at Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery. Tell them Russel sent you!

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Sorrento Valley Pet Cemetery & Crematory
10801 Sorrento Valley Road
San Diego CA 92121-1611
619-276-3361
info@svpc.biz
www.svpc.biz

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