Category Archives: Inspiration
Just for the halibut
![]()
A couple of days ago Jim and I went to eat at Souplantation, one of our favorite restaurants for when I don’t want to cook (and Jim’s NOT a cook), we want lots of food, and we want food inexpensively. An all-you-can-eat lunch buffet is $8.99 and the dinner buffet is $10.99. And yet I remember when I first at a Souplantation back in 1993. Lunch buffet was $2.49 and dinner buffet was $3.99. Oh, well, at least their employees tend to stick around for a long time, probably because they make a decent wage and perhaps even have health insurance, a 401(k), etc.
This past Sunday Jim and I got ambitious and decided to go to a Souplantation that is about ten miles from us (the one we normally go to is just two miles from us). When we parked, I was able to get this picture:
![]()
One would think that a place with such a name is obviously a seafood restaurant.
Not so fast there, Tonto.
It’s not.
However, I’m not going to tell you what it is, either.
I’ll let you guess.
Once you’ve registered your guess, you can…..
scroll
scroll
scroll
scroll
scroll
scroll
scroll
scroll
and
scroll
to find this:
![]()
It’s a paper, card, and gift store!
They apparently don’t have a web site, which I find somewhat surprising but, considering what they sell, not totally surprising. While searching for that web site, though, I came upon some reviews at Yelp and Yellowpages. I thought this one was the best:
“This is a darling store that has the cutest stuff in it. They are things that we totally don’t need, but want to buy because it’s too cute. It reminds me of a gift store you’d find in Monterrey [sic], CA.”
Having been to Monterey (only one “R”), I completely understand. I love little gift shops that have the cutest stuff in them that I totally don’t need but buy anyway because they are too cute. I can also say that cute stuff makes nice little gifts for family, friends, and co-workers, especially for that awkward moment when you become the Secret Santa to a co-worker whom you don’t particularly care for………..lol
I suppose you’re wondering what kind of too cute things I bought. Well, I got two piggy banks.
![]()
![]()
![]()
Have you tried finding nice piggy banks in today’s world? I used to give piggy banks to people who recently had a baby but two things happened: (1) Piggy banks became scarce, and (2) friends having babies became scarce. Nonetheless, now I have two piggy banks for those unexpected moments when a neighbor or a Client has a baby!
Just for the Halibut (and Souplantation) are located at 3960 West Point Loma Boulevard:
![]()
Looking for real estate services in San Diego County?
I can highly recommend
James Frimmer, Realtor
Century 21 Award, DRE #01458572
If you’re looking for a home inspector,
I recommend Russel Ray — that’s me!
Dogs: jokesters, companions, teachers
I have been blogging on WordPress since January 7, 2012. Yesterday is the first day I didn’t publish a new post. I think it had something to do with trying to read the hundred emails that my mother-in-law sent me. I swear she saves up a month worth of emails and then sends them all to me at the same time.
Following are fifteen of the billion pictures that arrived in her emails yesterday.
I think it’s worthwhile to tell you that my mother-in-law has three cats and, to the best of my knowledge, has never had a dog in her 78 years.
Zoey the Cool Cat and I hope that if you have the opportunity you’ll adopt a dog or cat today!
Looking for real estate services in San Diego County?
I can highly recommend
James Frimmer, Realtor
Century 21 Award, DRE #01458572
If you’re looking for a home inspector,
I recommend Russel Ray — that’s me!
Once I give my money to the government, it is no longer my money
During the Summer of 1975 when I was a Junior at Texas A&M University, I pledged a Greek organization called Alpha Phi Omega National Service Fraternity (hereafter, “APO”). When my friends asked me the difference between APO and other Greek fraternities and sororities, I explained it thusly:
Fraternities and sororities spend 80% of their time partying. APO spends 80% of its time helping others.
From August 1973 to June 1975, I was without my wise old grandmother. She was in Kingsville, Texas, and I was 300 miles away at Texas A&M. APO came into my life and continued to remind me, through today, that there is, indeed, always someone worse off than me.
My wise old grandother had always told me, “There is always someone worse off than you are.” She usually said that as I was complaining about pruning the oleanders, mowing the lawn, hanging the laundry, washing the dishes, cleaning my room………. APO continues in me with the words of my wise old grandmother.
So today, for those who love charities and real pumpkins, here’s what I want you to do. Yes, this involves planning and work, but it’s always fun. And I have some work music for you, too:
Before you do anything else, pick a number from 1 to 100. Write it down.
Now, since October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and October 31 is Halloween, take the family out to the pumpkin patch and get a real pumpkin, one that has seeds inside. Take the pumpkin home, cut off the top so you can get to the insides, and get all those seeds out of there. Young children often like this part of our project because they get to get all yukky and oogy.
Take the seeds, separate them from the rest of the pumpkin guts, wash the seeds, and set them aside to dry. Continue cleaning out your pumpkin and carving a face into it for use on the front porch for the next few days.
When the seeds have dried, count them! Write down the number of seeds. I usually get about 300 seeds out of my pumpkins, which are average size. Small pumpkins will have fewer seeds, and those really really really really big pumpkins will have more.
Once you have counted the seeds, roast them! They make great snacks, have lots of good fiber, and your children will be bragging to the neighborhood, “We roasted our pumpkin seeds to eat! I have some here. Do you want one?”
Here’s a good pumpkin seed recipe: Roasted pumpkin seeds.
Okay, remember those two numbers we wrote down? Take the first number, that between 1 and 100, and multiple it by the second number, the number of seeds, to get a final number. For example, if you chose 25 and had 300 seeds, your final number would be 7,500. Drop the two zeroes, and you have 75.
Now I want you to write a check to your favorite charity, or to a cancer charity in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, for $75. If $75 is too much for you right now, that’s okay. Write a check for whatever amount you can. As we have seen in President Obama’s grassroots money-raising, every little bit helps.
Remember that your donation is often tax-deductible, so in addition to helping people who are less fortunate than you, you just lowered your taxes!
I donate to various charities on a quarterly basis, and since September is the end of the third quarter, I use pumpkin event to donate to cancer organizations during October. I also never complain about how the government spends its money, for two reasons:
-
Once I give my money to the government, it is no longer my money. It’s the government’s money.
-
The government rarely gets much money from me because I’m not from the rich 1% and I use deductions to lower my tax burden. I figure I can do a better job of spending my money than the government can do spending its money.
Looking for real estate services in San Diego County?
I can highly recommend
James Frimmer, Realtor
Century 21 Award, DRE #01458572
If you’re looking for a home inspector,
I recommend Russel Ray — that’s me!
Public transportation can be educational and inspiring
I’m not ashamed to say that I love public transporation, specifically the trains. Probably has something to do with my granddad, dad, and three uncles working for Missouri Pacific Railroad.
Fortunate am I to live in San Diego where I have access to the San Diego Trolley, Amtrak, the Coaster, the Sprinter, and Metrolink. In fact, every time I move, having a train station fairly close by has always been a requirement. Since 2007 I have lived just three blocks from the San Diego Trolley’s 70th Street Station — a walk down the long hill (longest block ever!) and east two blocks and I’m there.
The 70th Street Station is not my favorite station as far as aesthetics are concerned. The historic Santa Fe Depot and the Grantville Station take the top two spots:
However, the 70th Street Station is the most educational and inspiring. At the base of each light pole is that education and inspiration:
Many people come to San Diego and then go across the border to Tijuana. If you plan on doing that, might I suggest taking the San Diego Trolley to the San Ysidro border crossing, purportedly the busiest border crossing in the world. Walk across the border and take a Mexican Cab to where you want to go, probably Avenida Revolucion, the hot spot for tourists. If you drive across the border, be prepared to wait to get back into the United States. Car lines are long, and the wait can be up to six hours, although it usually is about 60 to 90 minutes. Be sure to have a passport because after 9/11 a simple driver’s license won’t get you back into the United States, another situation where the terrorists won.
![]()
Looking for real estate services in San Diego County?
I can highly recommend
James Frimmer, Realtor
Century 21 Award, DRE #01458572
If you’re looking for a home inspector,
I recommend Russel Ray — that’s me!
I’m pushing the SURPRISE button!
….perfect world….
….perfect people….
….perfect possessions….
….perfect things….
….perfect all the time….
You had everything you wanted…. what you wanted…. exactly as you wanted…. at the moment you wanted….
Would perfection be predictable? Dull? Boring?
What if there were two buttons each day that you could push, one marked PERFECTION and one marked SURPRISE?
Which one would you push?


















































